Love requires openness, a willingness to take another chance. Hardened hearts are not open to new Love. First comes the surrender - not to the other person, as you might imagine, but sacrificing our fears, wounds, attachments, past disappointments, and hard-won independence. Only when we submit to the heart are we fully open, receptive, and ready to let Love begin.
Practice: Walk into a room. Look around. Notice who is looking back. Go say hello to that person.
If we aren’t looking or not willing to talk to someone we don’t know, we aren’t open.
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What a great tip to meeting someone! Another good one I heard from you is 'look up' Thanks for the teachings!
I think it's important to recognize that when we aren't ready, we aren't ready. It's a choice we make either consciously or unconsciously, but is still a choice. We aren't victims of fortune. We create our own opportunities.
When someone approaches with an open heart, we definitely feel it. Ready-not ready-on-the-fence-maybe-just-sex-not-willing-to-take-a-risk gives off a completely different vibe. Pay attention.